Wednesday, 3 August 2016

TROUBLE IN PARADICE ....

The last week ive been so busy between visiting my future in-laws and having a relaxing, romantic weekend.

Its been lovely to see Jason’s folks even if it was only for a night, we relaxed ate good food and just caught up on life. This weekend the children have been down there real dads and me and Jay got time to ourselves. Its been wonderful his cuddles feel like he means them, kisses have been passionate and long and he’s just been so close to me I could get use to this I’m starting to feel sexy again and its been a long while coming.

We lay in bed till late Sunday night and cuddled and watched tv the last few weeks he’s been amazing cuddles and proper kisses but two days again we had sex! I know I’m shocked too! And my god it was worth the wait. Last night I couldn’t help but wake him up I didn’t know what the time was but I opened up his boxes and started tugging at his cock and before I knew it he was awake and it all started all over the again, but then he falls asleep last night and I’m still up watching tv and the voices in my head tell me to check his phone and I couldn’t help but pick it up thinking I wouldn’t find anything so what’s the harm and in directly I didn’t find anything over the top incriminating.

He says he went to band on Sunday and then I check his phone look at his messages and find that he went to Sian’s house for dinner know if he had told me about it I admit I wouldn’t be over the moon but I wouldn’t have stopped him, id have let him go but he lied to me why its pointless he knows I always find out in the end. What you have to remember about this was when they first started chatting a few months ago I found out they were exchanging flirty messages and I found pictures of his cock on his phone which he admit he sent to know one after I went berserk I calmed down and let it slide thinking I was over reacting, so in some ways I can understand why he would be wary of telling me but I hate it when he lies I find it hard to trust him when he does that its like we take ten steps backwards and I don’t know what to think.

He knows I find it hard to trust people because of everything that goes through my head I hate this, I was going to bring it up to him tonight after dinner but I thought twice about it I don’t want to fight and he will only be mad about me going through his phone and at the moment I just don’t have the head for that right now not with the way my head is at the moment. But that’s not all I also read that he was suppose to go to hers on Monday to help with a presentation did he go he didn’t call to say he was coming home until eleven thirty pm instead of the usual ten to ten thirty my head is going over time right now I’m scared this is the start of something, I’m scared he’s going to keep telling me one thing and do something else just to see her how this far? I’m not sure if I’m over reacting but it hurt me deep.

I honestly thought we were over this type of shit were suppose to be wedding planning after Christmas and now I feel like I cant trust him great fucking stuff nothing is ever simple in my world but i also don't want to over react and i know if i mention it too him he will just turn the tables and make out I'm over reacting and then i'll feel mad and depressed about it whats a women to do. On another note, I also tried to cut my fingers off Monday night because the voices told me too, it frightened me I haven’t tried to do those things in a while I thought I was stronger than that but I’m not, I’m still as weak as ever, luckily enough I didn’t do any harm to myself just a few cuts which are now pretty much gone thank goodness I didn’t want scares to go on my holiday.

I think I should probably leave this as it is now and see how my head is I need time to process all of this to make sense of it because I don’t want to go head first into this with him and have a huge disagreement with him.


Blessed be….

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